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Things which You should not do in your Life !

Updated: Jul 23, 2020


Hey Fellas !

Hope you all are safe and enjoying each and every moment of your life. As most of us are working from home this season, you will get the opportunity to feel the water drops and hug the cold winds by opening your arms while taking the deep breath in your balconies or terrace otherwise all these past years, you have seen nature through closed glasses only. isn't it?

Yess Monsoon is here and I am all set with my all time favourites....some old music numbers, coffee and my books and yes this time my writing too :)


I love this season as rains makes me feel alive. Have your ever thought even our daily life have diverse moods like seasons.

Thinking what are these !!

Majorly Love, Anger and sadness.


Moreover, few people have extreme mood swings.The expression of their moods are too loud with their friends and families. I have seen innumerable times when couple of my friends are drunk they do some colossal promises as they are in jubilant mood. However, the next dawn they either deny or bound to deliver the same to keep their reputation awake in the society.


In our society, People come and do "knowledge transfer" all the times and keep telling you what to do in your life but....Today I will tell you what are the 3 things you "Should Not" do in your Life as there is no whitener which is available with us to correct our past actions !


"Never give any promises/commitment in delight"

Generally when we are in hay mood, we commit promises to our loved ones which later converts band of our neck. Down the line, we aren't left with any option but to fulfil it with uneasiness inside us . We had seen this when King Dashratha given two promises to Queen Kakayi and later he had no option but to fulfil it and we all know the consequences of the same. It happens in our surroundings too when friends give commitments like sponsoring foreign trips on the occasion of their promotion and later they regret. So, never give these commitments in excitement to anyone.


"Never Answer when you are Angry"

When we are angry our brain stops working and we loose our discretion powers. As our brain is not working efficiently, we plugin unfiltered words in our statement without any analysis and later we regret but till that time the damage is being done and we are left with guilt and sorry inside us.Woefully, we cannot eat up our words back once spoken by us. Those words which we had stated in anger turns up as a Lifetime questions on us and then we have to live with it throughout our life.


"Never take decisions when you are too hurt or sad"

When you are sad your thinking power get restricted and you think in the negative way only. The decision which you will take at that moment will give you lifetime sadness.You can play your life cassette and can do that analysis.


In short any promises, answers, decisions of Life should be taken, when you are still in your thoughts. Meditation and continuous self analysis soccour us to stay still and calm in our life and make the way to bind the gaps of our mood swings.


Always remember “Steps taken with still mind land us to hassle-free and happy Life"


Cheers


Life



 
 
 

4 Comments


Sachin Mahajan
Sachin Mahajan
Jul 23, 2020

Very well written and explained boss as the points explained are related to everyone life and the solution is Meditation and self assessment which you have mentioned are correct. Looking forward for more motivational blogs.☺

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tanya
tanya
Jul 23, 2020

Things you should no do.. are more important than the things we should do.. in my perspective.. so it's a beautifully explained and described blog by you Nitin..

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talk2nitin
talk2nitin
Jul 23, 2020

Thanks so much mayur...i am glad that you were able to connect with my thoughts. Will try my best to share better writing with u

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MAYUR VARMA
MAYUR VARMA
Jul 23, 2020

Hey very well written Nitin... Looking forward to read more from you! 🤘💬✍️

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