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Problems ! Here is the solution

Updated: May 24, 2021


Hey everyone, here is another week which has passed and we are coming closer to the good days and I am sure it will come soon where we will reunite with our loved one's in their pink health.


"Problems" This word needs no introduction as this is something which is the biggest challenge of everybody's life and I keep hearing that someone or other is facing problems in their relationship. Though, all of us talk over the problems with the other person to get the issues resolved but at the end either the problem gets ironed out or dispute takes place.


Have you ever thought why dispute takes place and not the solution when we talk to the other side? Reason being, the conversations didn't happen in good order.


And why conversations didn't happen in good order? Because most of the time we make the same mistake, we listen to the conversations " to answer " but " not to understand the other side point of view ". It is very much important to have the right frame of mind when we are doing the conversations with someone.


The moment or the day when you will start listening to the conversations "not to answer" but "to understand the point of view" of the other side and not to revert at the very same moment, you will realise that all your disputes have faded away and conversations are moving towards solutions.


In other words, either understand the other side or make the other side understand your point of view perfectly.


Now, it's up to you that you want disputes or conversations in your relationship. Choice is yours ! but always remember ....

"If you do not clear your disputes or misunderstanding in time they become the reason for the distance forever"

Look forward to your point of view in the comment or discussion section.


Cheers

Nitin

 
 
 

3 Comments


Parul Chhibba
Parul Chhibba
May 25, 2021

I am understanding all his things, but the person in front doesn't want to understand my thoughts, so what should I do??

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Sachin Mahajan
Sachin Mahajan
May 16, 2021

Agreed on the point we should listen, understand the problem and resolve it as it creates as bonding for long term.


Scenario Question:


Sometimes it happens we put our point of view to the problems but the other person think they are providing the right solution in this situation what is the solution to the problem?


Should we stop giving inputs to the problem or follow the person everytime ?


How to clear a mind blockage made in peron mind as he is doesn't listen to our solution then why we should give input?

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The more we understand /Listen /given time to problem better solution come..but some time two different understanding desn't come to any solution like in relationship.

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