Know your priority in Life.....Say what you mean !

Hey everyone. Hope you all are ready to welcome winters. Personally I love winters as it helps me to create an amazing combination of some evergreen music, strong hot coffee, cozy room, dim lights and the most important the "Good Company" with whom I can share what I feel without being judged or without any formalities.

Hope you have someone in your life with whom you can share what you feel without twisting your emotions. I am sure most of the readers here must be thinking do they actually have someone like this in their life....?

If you will say I don't and never had, I will not agree. We all had someone but maybe we never made that person feel important or taken for-granted. Did you ever notice that it's the people we love most that we take most for granted?odd, isn't it?

We always felt that love inside but we never expressed, as either we thought they would understand without our expression or we never realised that even it should be expressed.

Work will never get over nor the people who will attract you, use you and fade away. True friends and loved one's who actually care for you, understands you, makes you smile, get upset when you are upset are to be appreciated and hugged frequently. It is important to give that warmth of a hug which will convey that they matter to you and they are your asset and your priority. Do not wait before urgency is being created and you lose them and regret later.

I was talking to one of my dear friends and she was mentioning that she didn't take any leave for the last one year from her workplace and now she has taken 3 days leave but there is no one with whom she can go and spend time. Money which is being earned in that one year can help you to buy someone who can hug you with that unconditional love and emotion. Understand your feelings and make you smile. You also know the answer....

It's much easier to slip your home/childhood relations as they are never in your priority list but have you ever thought what can be the more priority than the people who love you so much. What's the point to be uber successful but be alone in life? A budgeted trip with your loved one's is much better than staying alone in the luxury trip and in 5 star hotel.Trust me.

So meet your loved ones frequently, hug them, tell them how much you love them and they matter a lot in your life before it's too late. If you have kids, express your feelings with them frequently so they can also learn and this chain never stops.....

stop thinking...time to action now and don't miss to see that sparkle in your loved one’s eyes which will come after your hug :)

Cheers

Your's Nitin