Forgiveness in Relationship !

Hey everyone, we are living numerous relationships in our life’s like Lover, Spouse, sibling, son, father, daughter, friends and so on. As we all are disparate from each other and carry different mindsets we hurt each other unintentionally by choosing wrong actions or words. We struggle to forgive and carry that baggage along with us in our life and make that groove more deep and it hurts us more. If the choice is given to you to live your life joyfully, blissfully or with anger, stress, resentment what will you choose ? I know your answer will be a joyful and blissful life because as human beings we want the pinnacle of happiness and pleasantness in our life and if we have pleasantness around us then we feel that we have a successful life. Manifestly, there are certain internal and external factors which help us to make our surroundings pleasant. Internal factors are in our hands like pleasantness of our body, mind, emotions and energy. However, the external factors are not in our hands. One of them is "People" who are not cooperating with us to maintain that pleasantness in our life. People are doing their actions as per their value system, experiences and the knowledge they carry with them.They may abuse you, use bad language but that’s what they know. If you become resentful because of what they said and expect that something will happen or impact them it will definitely not. Getting angry or hating them will not impact them but will impact your internal peace only. It will work as a poison for your health. Unfortunately, we expect that our hatred, anger and resentment should impact other people but it is actually impacting us. Anger, Hatred, resentment are the poison which you drink and expect other people to die. “Life doesn’t work in this way you drink poison, so you die” It’s all about focusing on your life, your priorities and letting the external factors not impact your internal peace of mind. “Doesn’t matter how much negativity people throw forgive them thinking that they are unwell and leave that baggage at the very same moment and move on in your life” Look forward for your thoughts in comments Cheers Nitin