Ever felt used and trashed in your Relations?

Life is the biggest teacher for us and we learn most of the life lessons when we experience it. I meet with innumerable people in my life but there are not all of them with whom I felt connected. There are some souls I had met and felt connected. Everyone has their own magnetic connects however, I connect with people the way they think, drive their life, follow their own values systems "unconditionally" and respect relations. As I always say some people take the steering seat of their life however some let others allow to drive for them. I hope you are your own driver here !

When we connect with someone, we start getting inclined towards that person and here our investment of two important things starts too, i.e. "Emotions and Time". This investment turns way bigger when you start getting a smile, whenever your phone vibrates and the same name pops up :)

Here is the kick start of the unnamed relation, where you would like to give your best, the way you can without even thinking what will be the returns here......

Talking on calls, sharing pains by listening to that person, enhancing the happiness by adding laughs and appreciation, showing your concern that you value him/her.

You feel much addictive as your day starts with good morning messages and nights end with some good night talks. This is a beautiful journey and I can vouch you all have travelled it in your life....!

"Appearances" plays a huge role and sometimes work as a foundation of such connects and this is the reason when charms get over, ignorance takes place. This is the worst phase of life. You feel exasperated, disrespectful, annoying and rolling between mood swings.

Any relation works well when it has mutual respect, dignity and the most important love without any assumptions.One sided emotions never work !

How did you feel when you are being ignored?It is a feeling that you were being used and then trashed. This feeling is genuine and then most of us may said abusive words about that person in our mind or may be to someone else. Hai na?

Don't be livid with this selfish person not even in your mind. You cannot control others but your actions are in your hand and you have given your best with true feelings and not with falsify emotions. Feel proud, not sad as its the other person loss. Let them go and you should continue to follow your own values which are strong as you are !

These people may come back again as per their need after certain intervals and you may feel like to disrespect them, want to abuse them but do not do that as when there is much darkness in life, people search for light and you are the light for them.

Do not feel sad because that person is again approching you because of his/her selfishness but should feel blessed and happy that you have that spark in “YOU” that people approach you in their bad times. Only this time ensure that you do not invest your emotions here but only spread light as you always do.

Always remember people come to those who have light and positivity with them when they find much darkness in their life's. Do not keep your eye on these “people” but keep it on your "Abilities"

Cheers

Life