Do you have right people in your life??

Hey everyone...Hope you all are safe and healthy at your homes.

As time is tapping ahead, we are learning new things day by day. One thing is sure that this lock down has taught us lifetime lessons. One of the pertinent things which we all have realised that the number of people we were abutting with....all are not real friends or I can say are not the one who actually our well-wishers.

I am sure there are much less people who are calling you and listening to you rather than you had expected or vouched for :). Earlier people used to say that they do not have time and now when they have time..they do not have the intentions.

This time has definitely clicked a question inside you that Do you have right people in your life?

Why it is so important to have right people in our life? I am sure none of us wants to invest in any of the sector where there are no good returns...hai na then why to invest our emotions and time in wrong people. It is essential to invest our time and emotions in right people. Unfortunately, we are not able to choose the right people and take right calls which makes us regret later. 

Ok let me ask you a question. How do you choose a book when you go to buy it in the book store? I am sure not by its cover. You read it a bit and when you feel connected by the writer thought process then you buy it. But our logic while choosing people around us is totally opposite. We choose them by their looks and fall in love with them instantly and start investing our emotions day by day.Subsequently, after few days we regret as we are not able to connect ourself with the thought process of them. At the end, that bitterness start injecting in the relationship and then it gets over with wounds and bad memories.

It is mandate to give time to understand the person gradually and then start investing our emotions but as usual if the person looks goods , wear branded clothes we start feeling inclined and forget everything. Unfortunately shinny things attracts a lot but all are not gold !!

Happiness...

Happiness in our life's are connected with the people with whom we are surrounded with. If you have people in your life who loves you, care for you, feel you happiness, your pain, your sadness then I am sure your life is full with happiness but on the other side if people in your life don't understand you and are available as per their mood swings then you are in a sad phase of your life and you need to wake up and stop relying on them without loosing a single minute.

Now the question comes here that how to choose right people in our life or how to read people correctly so there are no regrets later.

So the person who understands the below, will go along a long way with you

First, Pain behind your smile

Second, Love behind your anger

And the third one, compulsion behind your silence !

Now start evaluating the people who are around you, your family, friends and your relatives.

It is not necessary that family should understand the above, it can be anyone, your cousins, friends or your lover. If you have someone who understands the above you can close your eyes and trust that person because I am sure that person will be there when you need him/her.

So happiness of your life is in your hands only, take right steps now as no one else can do this for you.

Sometimes we take the calls lately but its better to take it now and have the right people in our life...

Right people = Happy Life

All the best

Cheers