Do you have fear & invisible fences in your life?

We all have heard another announcement of extension of lock down till 3rd May now and here's the social media bombarded with comments. Some are too happy and some are upset with it and thinking how this time will pass.This made me think that we live in the same world but still some people are so motivated and energetic, trying new things and living their life to the fullest and others are so upset and thinking how this time will pass.

Life has its own challenges and everybody have it but we always found others life more beautiful, successful and without any problems.

First of all I think it is much important to understand ourself and that can only happen when we do the self analyzation. Try to understand our strengths, our weakness and the most important our fears. I am sure we all have our own fears however thats a different case we never accept it and always try to run away from it.Fear is the little death which kills your dreams and success gradually. I had read it somewhere that "if you do your fears you will shine and if you run away from them you will shrink from greatness" such a great lines. isn't it?

I do remember when I took admission in the Hotel Management Graduation programme after completing my intermediate exam from Hindi medium school. This college was swanky and had amazing crowd from all metro cities passed out from CBSE english medium schools. All the lectures used to happen in english and I had never raised my hand till my first semester to answer anything to my professors. It was indeed my fear that I will not be able to speak correct english and will end up as laughing stock between the class and due to which I was not able to shine at all. I was secluded and didn't have any good friends till that time. Finally the day came when first semester result came out and I had topped the college. I was the talk of the town that day and everybody wanted to speak to me. Life changed next day and all the questions were bombarded on me being a topper of the class. I fought with my fears and confidently answered without thinking anything and I realised that I had a good command on english but my fears were not allowing me to shine. That was the last day when I had fear in my life.This is the time which can be used to list down all your fears and make the strategy around it as I can bet the happiness which you will feel after winning all these fears is amazing. Trust me !

As I travel a lot due to my work and love to talk to people while travelling , I have found that people are so intelligent and capable but stopping themselves to perform as something is them which is not allowing them to perform and I can bet, it is happening with most us around. What is that which is stopping them ?

Invisible fences !!

These are the fences which are around them but cannot be seen. These have surrounded and stopping us to grow in our life's.

It is very important to accept the major changes around and accept these changes as challenges in our lives. Why we don't innovate and express the creative genius that resides within each of us? The answer is easy these "invisible fences". I had always accepted the challenges in my life and these challenges have always helped me to realise that it was only in my mind that i cannot do this however I always carry capabilities to perform....doesn't matter if that was speaking as a panelist in the conference, leading a function, heading a department, delivering any project within tight timelines, walking on the ramp, doing photoshoots or writing a blog ! There are always people around who may create some negativity and try to fix some invisible fences around you but you need to be aware of them. Observe them. Challenge them so when something confronts you , rather than running from it, face it and deliver it like you have never done it...! Secondly, it is mandate to stay away from such negative minded people as they will only create these invisible fences around you.

Time is here, Do all the creative stuff which you always wanted to do and deliver but had stopped yourself as when we all grow, we adopt negative beliefs and false assumptions from the world around us and later these negative beliefs and false assumptions get converted into thick invisible fences.

I strongly believe, that everyone is strong enough and carry that willpower to win with rainbow colours once one start showing that trust on oneself and start working on ons's dreams with full compassion and belief without assuming that there are any barrication around.

Always remember that " there will never be a better time to be the best you than today"

Cheers