Are you Managing your Emotional Relationship well ?

Hey Everyone, in this era of social apps where you keep connecting with lots of strangers and then move to strings of chats, getting to know each other more, dates and then the most dangerous step "Expectation" where most of the things fall apart.This is the step where relations may continue or collapse!

When expectations do not fulfill in your relationship you start punishing someone by ignorance/silent treatment/ugliness but there is no remorse which is happening on the other side.

People will do what they want to do, NOT what you expect them to do "Always".

If you are upset because of this then you're mistaken because humans work like this, we all are different having different values, different mindset. For example, If I went to meet someone special to other city and the person doesn't come to the airport or did not welcome me with a tight warm hug or with that vibe then if I get upset it is not the fault of other person because may the expectations were wrong from my side and the other person has something else in his mind !

Expecting relationships to be absolute is not right, relationships are variable, it will fall or fluctuate everyday depending on your daily actions. You are trying your best but may be to the other side that is not the best. People in relationships understand that relationships need attention else it starts spilling. Everyday is a new day with new efforts. This is the reason people who want absolute relationships stick to GOD because they know well if they do not remember God for a week and go back God is there but the human beings will not be, as human relationship doesn't work in this way. You do not give attention for 3 days, your relationship will fold in some other way.

So actually when you try to punish someone by ignorance/Silent treatment/ugliness, you are actually punishing yourself ! If you think calmly, you should do, what you would like to do in your life and do not need to react with them and do something stupid. These people actually helped you to come out from illusion and showed you the reality of life. You should be grateful to them. Look deep inside you and find that light which can make you feel positive and happy.

Do you remember the Life of Shri Krishna "He has left his birth parents, his friends in gokul, Radha and so on but he has not left his positivity towards the life and his smile" Have that trust whatever is happening, happening for good, just always carry good intention towards people around you and keep doing the actions to make people happy and not to hurt them.

Trust me these unintentional karma will revolve back to you with a smile & happiness !

Love

Nitin